Frequently Asked Questions

Independent living is ideal for active seniors who want a maintenance-free lifestyle with access to amenities like meals, housekeeping, social activities, and transportation. Assisted living provides all of that plus support with daily activities such as bathing, dressing, medication management, and mobility. In short, independent living is for lifestyle; assisted living is for support and care.

Memory care is a specialized form of assisted living designed for individuals with Alzheimer's or other types of dementia. These communities offer structured routines, secure environments, and staff trained in cognitive care. While both provide assistance with daily living, memory care has enhanced safety features and programming focused on memory stimulation and behavior support.

Board and care homes are licensed residential homes that provide assisted living services in a smaller, more intimate setting typically for 6 to 10 residents. They offer personalized care and a family-like atmosphere, which may be a better fit for seniors who prefer quieter surroundings or need a higher level of individual attention than what's available in larger facilities.

Home health care involves skilled nursing or therapy services delivered in the comfort of a senior's home. It can include medical services, physical therapy, or short-term recovery support. While helpful, it may not provide around-the-clock care or supervision, making it a good supplement but not always a complete alternative to assisted living -- especially for those with complex needs.

Assisted living communities generally include three meals a day, housekeeping, laundry, 24-hour staff availability, assistance with daily tasks, medication management, scheduled transportation, wellness programs, and social activities. Some also provide beauty salons, fitness centers, and optional on-site medical services.

Yes, many communities offer a continuum of care, allowing residents to transition from independent living to assisted living and then to memory care as needs change -- all within the same campus. This can provide peace of mind for families looking for a long-term solution.

Indicators include wandering, frequent confusion, aggressive behavior, significant memory loss, repetitive questioning, or safety risks such as leaving stoves on or getting lost. Memory care offers a secure, structured environment tailored to these needs.

A move to memory care is typically considered when cognitive decline progresses beyond what traditional assisted living can safely support. This may include behaviors that put the resident or others at risk or when personalized cognitive support becomes essential.

Preparation includes visiting communities, downsizing possessions, and involving family in discussions. Emotionally, it helps to view the move as a step toward safety and enrichment -- not a loss of independence. Many communities offer welcome programs and transition support.

Start early -- ideally before a crisis arises. Approach the conversation with empathy, focusing on their needs, preferences, and the benefits of enhanced support. Use 'we' language and offer to tour communities together. Listening is just as important as sharing your concerns.

Have an open discussion about your preferences, choose a trusted advocate or power of attorney, and begin researching communities that align with your values. Being proactive allows your family to honor your wishes and reduces the stress of last-minute decisions.